“Forgive often, but don’t forget the sound of certain footsteps. They tend to find their way back, even without a map.”
Forgiveness is freedom, but memory is armour. To forgive without remembering is to leave the door unlocked for the thief who knows the way in.
Mercy vs. Memory
Mercy opens the heart; memory protects it. One without the other is
dangerous. Forgetting the rhythm of those footsteps ensures their
return. Keeping it in mind ensures you don’t confuse familiar tread with
changed intent.
The Lesson in Boundaries
Not all who return deserve re-entry. Some come bearing apologies; others
come bearing the same wounds as before. Your wisdom lies in hearing the
difference. Forgive to unchain your soul, but remember to guard your
door.
Practical Guidance
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Forgive Freely: Unbind yourself from resentment.
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Remember Clearly: Patterns are teachers; footsteps are warnings.
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Guard Softly: Keep your heart open, but your thresholds strong.
Today’s Practice
Listen inwardly. Do you hear echoes of familiar harm? Forgive what was,
but set firm boundaries so those footsteps cannot march back into your
peace unchallenged.
